Rockin the Difference
Hello There! Welcome to Rockin the Difference, a podcast meant to share the experiences and information with those on their journey in the special needs world. I am your host, Chandra Neal, a mom of a young adult with special needs. My intent is to create a community where we can connect, be real and share in the humor and the tears, challenges and triumphs of what it’s like traveling down this path that is so unique as a special needs parent. Together, we can encourage and support each other as we are all Rockin the Difference!
Episodes

Sunday May 18, 2025
Sunday May 18, 2025
In this episode, I open up about the early years when first learned my son had special needs—and all the emotions that came with it: grief, fear, uncertainty. If I could sit with that younger version of myself, I’d tell her this...

Saturday Apr 05, 2025
Saturday Apr 05, 2025
In this heartfelt episode of Rocking the Difference, I sit down with an incredible mom Becky, and her two adult daughters, Hannah and Nicole, to honor the life and legacy of Breanna—their daughter and sister who had multiple disabilities, including blindness and mobility challenges, and who passed away three years ago. Together, we explore the deep love, joy, and challenges they experienced as a special needs family, and how Breanna’s presence shaped their bond.
We talk about the funny memories, the hard days, the strength Breanna unknowingly gave them, and what life looks like now without her physical presence—but with her spirit still very much alive. This emotional and uplifting conversation is a tribute to unconditional love, sisterhood, and the resilience of families who walk this unique path.
Tune in for a story that will move your heart and remind you that the love we give and receive knows no limits.

Sunday Mar 09, 2025
Sunday Mar 09, 2025
Today we’re talking about something so many special needs parents struggle with—helping our kids learn to advocate for themselves.
I’ve personally been dealing with this forever with my son, who is now 21-year-old, who is blind and autistic. He has a hard time voicing his needs—whether it’s letting me know if he’s hungry or not feeling well, asking for help, or even just problem-solving in everyday situations.
Today, I want to share some real-life examples of the challenges we face, explore why this happens, and—most importantly—open up the conversation to see what has worked for you as fellow parents and caregivers.
I would love to hear your stories or strategies you've used to help your kid advocate for themselves. You can find me on Instagram @rockin_the_difference and leave a DM or comment. Or email me at rockingthedifference@gmail.com

Tuesday Feb 04, 2025
Tuesday Feb 04, 2025
On today’s episode of Rocking the Difference, I am honored to welcome an incredible guest whose story is one of resilience, transformation, and the power of self-belief. Amanda Casarella grew up facing challenges that many of us can relate to—struggling with a learning disability, battling debilitating migraines that kept her out of school, and navigating the stigma of being placed in special education. On top of that, she endured shame and abuse that made her believe her identity and worth were tied to her disability.
She made the courageous choice to reclaim her narrative, break free from the limitations placed on her, and step into the truth of who she is. Today, she embraces her journey, knowing that every challenge shaped the powerhouse woman she’s become. She’s now a passionate actress and entrepreneur, using her experiences sharing her journey to inspire others, proving that our past does not define us—our determination does.
You can find Amanda Casarella here:
Instagram: @Amanda.Casarella and @alittlehouseorganized
www.amandacasarella.com
www.alittlehouseorganized.com

Friday Jan 24, 2025
Friday Jan 24, 2025
After the busyness of the holidays, I wanted to get back in touch with you all and talk about intention, creating community and upcoming changes and challenges this year.
Here is a quick episode to get reconnected!
Some great Podcasts to check out: The Special Needs Mom Podcast - Episode: Stabilizing After Winter Breakand Moms Talk Autism Podcast
You can find me on Instagram @Rockin_the_DifferenceEmail: rockinthedifference@gmail.com

Tuesday Nov 26, 2024
Tuesday Nov 26, 2024
Today I talk with my friend, Nada, on the sacrifices we make as parents of special needs individuals.
We all make sacrifices to ensure our kids are getting the best of what we can give them. With Nada, this meant moving countries with her kids, while her husband stayed. It meant giving up what she was familiar with to make sure her son lived a full life and adjusting to a new family dynamic with her kids and long distance marriage.
She's an amazing woman and I hope you can resonate with her story.

Saturday Aug 31, 2024

Tuesday Jul 09, 2024
Tuesday Jul 09, 2024
In today's episode I talk with Erin and Bruce Wilson who founded If I Need Help.
They started this non profit which provides a system to help find special needs kids, as well as individuals suffering from dementia or Alzheimers, that go missing, especially for those who can’t communicate. It uses modern technologies to help reunite those who might become lost, disoriented or need assistance in a critical moment.
They share what inspired them to start this business, how it has impacted their family, how to learn more about it as well as some awesome success stories.
To learn more you can find the at www.ifineedhelp.org

Sunday Jun 02, 2024
Sunday Jun 02, 2024
In this episode I talk about my son, Ryan, reaching a milestone and moving towards that next phase from being in the school years bubble into adulthood and how that unpredictability and foreverness hit me hard.
If you have comments or ideas you'd like to share on this topic, I'd love to hear them and possibly expand on them in future episodes.
You can DM on Instragram: /rockin_the_difference or email me at rockingthedifference@gmail.com

Thursday Apr 25, 2024
Thursday Apr 25, 2024
Aubrie Forte has been a special person in our lives for almost 17 years now. She has been a teacher in special education and now works directly with schools to support programs on campus, with students, teachers and families. She was Ryan's teacher throughout elementary school and is lovingly known as Ryan's Forever Teacher because she continues to be a part of his life.
She has a BA in SpED and an MA in mod/severe disabilities. She shares her insights on what she has learned along her journey from the students and families she has been involved with. She also offers thoughts for parents, suggestions for those considering becoming a special education teacher along with funny and heart warming stories and learning experiences throughout her journey.